The conversation around Nigerians migrating abroad for greener pastures, popularly known as #Japa, has taken a new turn following comments from Abike Dabiri-Erewa, Chairman of Nigerians in Diaspora Commission (NiDCOM). She claimed that her agency has been bombarded with cases of Nigerians expressing regrets and depression after relocating abroad.

Her comments were in response to a tweet by UK-based lawyer Dele Olawale, who warned Nigerians to “think twice before leaving,” citing an increasingly difficult immigration atmosphere and financial struggles among many Nigerians abroad.

These statements have sparked a heated debate online, with Nigerians both at home and abroad sharing their perspectives on whether relocating truly leads to regret or if it’s simply a phase in the journey toward a better life.

Is Japa a Mistake or Just a Tough Transition?

For many Nigerians, moving abroad is a major life decision fueled by the search for better opportunities, higher wages, quality education, and improved living conditions. However, as some people have pointed out, relocation comes with its own set of challenges, and adjusting to a new system can be overwhelming.

A user, @fact_undisputed, explained why some Nigerians struggle abroad: “For a start, it’s not going to be easy for any JJC (newcomer) in any country, but Nigerian people are not that patient. The newcomers want to do what someone who has been in the country for 10 years is doing.”

This highlights the fact that settling down takes time, patience, and adaptation—whether it’s within Nigeria or abroad. However, this doesn’t mean that relocation is a mistake; it simply means that expectations must be managed.

@ideniyor shared a different perspective, arguing that regret mostly affects those who were already successful before leaving: “It’s not the poor who Japa—it’s those with great jobs and big savings who cash out and start over. Many never reach their former heights, leading to a life of regret. Not all, but many.”

This suggests that the decision to relocate should be based on long-term goals, not just short-term financial gains.

Does Regret Depend on the Country of Relocation?

One major flaw in Abike Dabiri’s statement is that it lumps all Nigerians abroad into one category, ignoring the fact that experiences vary based on location, personal circumstances, and opportunities available in different countries.

@olawaleonline made an interesting point: “Those saying false or attacking #AbikeDabiri have their default definition of ‘abroad’ to mean UK, USA & Canada with some European countries. Dubai, Libya, Egypt, Malaysia, Cyprus, Ghana, South Africa, Turkey are all abroad. Yes! Many are living in regrets, including in the UK.”

This means that while Nigerians in some developed countries might find life easier, others in less stable economies may struggle.

@angelgabriel4al added humorously: “I think it depends on the abroad. Ghana and South Africa sef na abroad.”

Clearly, not all relocation experiences are the same. Those who do proper research, acquire legal status, and develop in-demand skills tend to thrive, while those who migrate blindly often face difficulties.

Are Nigerians Truly More Depressed Abroad?

One of the strongest counterpoints against Abike Dabiri’s statement is the fact that Nigeria itself is in a deep economic crisis, making life incredibly difficult for millions.

@ugwu_obinn put it bluntly: “False. What is more depressing than living in Nigeria under this current government?”

Many Nigerians abroad still send money home to support families, which contradicts the claim that most of them are struggling.

Similarly, @lilyally99 shared a personal success story: “I got my master’s degree, working in almost my dream job, financial freedom, I go on at least 3 vacations a year. All these I couldn’t achieve in Nigeria without being a thief or a prostitute.”

This highlights that for many Nigerians, relocating was the best decision of their lives.

Final Thoughts: Should You Still Japa?

The reality is that relocation is not for everyone. Some Nigerians have thrived abroad, building successful careers and stable lives, while others have struggled to adjust or faced immigration challenges.

The key takeaway is that proper planning, research, and realistic expectations are essential before making the move.

Instead of generalizing Nigerians abroad as regretful and depressed, the focus should be on providing the right guidance and legal advice to ensure that those who choose to relocate make informed decisions.

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