A Nigerian designer in the UK has shared how a simple conversation about #visa #sponsorship led to job loss, months of depression, and a painful journey to rebuild his life.

The designer, who had worked in creative industries for nearly two decades, said his ordeal began last year when he asked his employer about sponsorship.

“At first, they seemed supportive and even mentioned involving an immigration consultant,” he recalled. “Suddenly, my manager’s attitude towards me changed completely. She began questioning my interest in the role, and I started feeling victimised.”

Within weeks, he was told he was “not suitable for the role” — a reason he insists was untrue. The experience left him devastated. “Every email notification from my manager made my heart race. Some mornings, I didn’t even feel like going to work.”

A Career in Doubt

The setback was especially painful given his background. Having grown up around printing presses in Nigeria, he had trained and mentored over 100 young designers, run a design studio, and executed corporate and government projects.

Yet after the layoff, he couldn’t bring himself to touch his laptop. “I blamed myself for ignoring my intuition. For weeks, I couldn’t create anything,” he said.

Job Hunt Blocked by Visa Restrictions

With just months left on his visa, finding another role became increasingly difficult. Despite several interviews, sponsorship barriers cost him at least five job offers.

One rejection was particularly crushing. He had reached the final stage with a major London firm for a senior role that paid nearly double his previous salary. “I imagined myself working there already. The interview went smoothly. Then came the heartbreak: they chose someone who didn’t require sponsorship.”

Depression and Family Pressure

The constant setbacks led to depression. “I’ve only heard people talk about ‘mental health.’ I never knew how real it was until this period,” he admitted.

Even his hobbies — football, gaming, cycling — lost their appeal. Friends began noticing his weight loss and exhaustion.

At home, his wife stepped up, taking on two jobs while pursuing qualifications that could lead to sponsorship. “She carried a heavy load but didn’t break,” he said, describing her as the family’s anchor.

A Turning Point

By early 2025, with their visa running out, his wife finally secured sponsorship. “That was the first night I slept peacefully in six months. The relief was huge.”

Meanwhile, he channelled his energy into starting a design business with a colleague and applied for a Sheffield private hire licence, seeing driving as a flexible side hustle. “I didn’t see it as a setback — it gave me time for childcare and business growth.”

In July, he passed the exams and secured his Sheffield taxi licence. The couple are now running a design business, working on a university project, while balancing family life.

Lessons Learned

Looking back, he admits the scars remain: “Do I feel happy now? Yes. Do I still feel hurt? Absolutely. But sharing my story is part of healing.”

He also warns others on visas to watch out for red flags. “If you ever notice signs of being pushed out because of visa sponsorship issues, please start looking for another job immediately.”

Grateful for the support of his wife, sister, business partner, and close friends, he concludes: “This isn’t a pity story. It’s about survival, resilience, and finding new ways to thrive.”